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Mr. Whiskers

We have a new addition to our family.  Three-out-of-four of our original cats are now deceased.  Grunt died Friday, New Year’s Eve on 12/31/04.  Indigo died the Monday after Thanksgiving on 11/28/05.  Monique died the Saturday of Memorial Day weekend on 05/27/06.  Exactly three weeks prior to Monique’s death, knowing it was approaching, we adopted Mr. Whiskers from a local shelter.  We knew that Bubba, as the sole survivor of our original cat family, would need a friend to survive the loss of his three siblings.  We woke that morning, 05/06/2006, and both had dreamt about the cats.  We went to the shelter and looked at hundreds of them.  In the last cage we looked into was a skinny gray and white cat with medium length hair who was named “Whiskers” by his previous owners.  He was curled up in a ball in his litter box.  I opened the cage and he walked towards us and walked up and wrapped his paws around my neck and “hugged” me.  I’ll spare you the rest of the details for now but, needless to say, we had found Bubba’s new friend.  And that he is.  He has not only helped Bubba in the adjustment and through some of the loss, but he has brought a great deal of energy and laughter into our home.  His whiskers are all white and indeed worthy of grabbing one’s attention.  His original name seemed a bit wimpy though so we dubbed him “Mister Whiskers”.  He is almost five years old – practically a kitten compared to his siblings who lived well into their teens and Bubba nearing 14 this week.  He is a blessing.

Summer 2006

I have recently returned from the Writer’s Workshop in Iowa City, Iowa.  I attended a week-long class on memoir writing.  I am officially re-inspired to work on the website more.  I have more confidence in my “calling” to be a writer and to share my stories.  Having had three cats die now in a year and half time frame and multiple funerals to attend, it has been busy again.  But this class re-enforced the knowledge that making the time to write is crucial.  I have been writing daily for years now.  I just need to figure out when, what, and how to share with the public.

Indigo

Indigo was a stray and showed up in my yard in June of 1992 so I have had him living with me for over 13 years. The vet, at the time, estimated that he was about a year and half minimum, so I assume he was about fifteen years old. Perhaps older? When he came into my life, he was mostly dead. He had lost a lot of weight, his hair was all matted up, and he was limping as one of his legs dangled from his body while he moved. We weren’t sure he was going to survive. He did survive. And was an excellent cat for all of these years. He died yesterday in my home with some assistance of the vet, the tech and myself. This was after a rapid decline since the night before Thanksgiving, just last week. I miss him dearly. I am so grateful though to have had his company and support for so long. He was a cat with a lot of dignity. He was incredibly helpful. He was sweet all the time. He was always there for me whenever I was sad about anything.

And he ALWAYS used the litter boxes. Seriously. Now that is a good cat.

Thanksgiving

I know, I know… it is sure taking me a long time to update. Life is busy though. We had a couple of months of two cats, out of three, who had decided to stop using the litter boxes. That was challenging – to say the least. I am grateful we have had a solid three months of success with them behaving now. We successfully made it on our second camping trip with our new pop-up the last weekend in September. I am grateful for the pop-up that I bought in July on the day my great aunt died. We had a friend in crisis a lot in October. I am grateful he is still alive. I threw my back out again at the end of the month. I am grateful that I still managed to pass out Halloween candy, oh, and that I can walk. We had a special visitor in the beginning of November. I got more balance in my life again. I am grateful for all of my friends. And then my cat, Indigo, stopped eating the night before Thanksgiving. I am grateful having had him in my life for so long. My brother and his fiance got a new puppy. My parents stopped up for a visit. I am grateful for my family. I am grateful for all of the people who help make the ‘difficult’ times so much more manageable.

Bubba

OK, I tried to add a photo of one of my cats, Bubba, but I was unsuccessful. Perhaps my most excellent web guy will be able to help me out soon… (Hey Cody, I lost your email address, drop me a line when you can!)

Hair

Check out www.sexingthepolital.com (see link on this website for STP) and scroll down for the title “Hair” for an early version of a chapter.  Also, in the previous edition of STP,  I have a feature article – the first of my writing to be published anywhere.  Keep in mind, both of these were early drafts, early in my hopeful writing career.

Michigan

Hey all, we made it home safe and sound from our annual trip to Michigan. It was a most excellent week. And even more fabulous to spend the following weekend with all of our Michfest friends in Indianapolis at the Garden Party 2005.

Hey

Welcome to my website! I basically have no clue what I am doing so far so please bare with me as I find time and learn how to personalize what I want to share with ya’ll. Thanks, Lauri